Friday, March 13, 2009

A Crazy Day

So today was a BAD day for the most part. As strange as it sounds, I think I needed it. I've  had a lot of good days, and I have been praying for humility a lot lately, and I got a large dose of it today. We had a "debate" in class today. I had to argue for the stimulus package, and I just talked a lot. I shouldn't have, because I'm a terrible arguer. I know I am a terrible arguer, but I guess my pride or my passion about it just took over. I think people hate me. Haha. One girl was just called me out and was like "I don't understand your argument" in an angry voice, and I shut up after that. In addition to that, I forgot to do 8 spreadsheets that were due the next class. Luckily, he let me turn it in this afternoon, but it was an ORDEAL to get it printed! I tried two different places in the library-- printer didn't work. I had to walk to the student center to use CopyCat... anyway, long story short, I was more than frustrated! I know that sounds not-so-awful, but for some reason, today it was. I think it was 1. Lack of sleep, 2. Over-sensitivity to what people think about me, 3. Friday the 13th, 4. I was just so ready to be done (it's the Friday before spring break for goodness' sake!) 

So, needless to say, I was humbled, especially by the debate incident. I just feel like I talk SO much sometimes, and I say so little. I just want to make a difference, and I feel like I talk so much that people just A.D.D. out and stop listening. I over explain myself 88.7% of the time, and I use 4321134124 words when I'm only trying to get across a point that could be explained in 6. I can say what I need to say when I write, but not when I speak. I hate that. I wish I were one of those quiet people who, when they finally speak up, say something meaningful. 

I need to master the art of thinking before I speak. I know God made me loud and crazy and opinionated for a reason, but I just feel like I'm more annoying than anything sometimes. I want to shut up long enough for God to use me. I just want to be wise... 

"If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." James 1:5 



Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Really, don't read this. I'm doing this so I can access this easily for studying purposes.

Capitalization

-avoid unnecessary capitals
-proper nouns
-some common nouns receive proper noun status when they are used as the name of a particular entity: General Electric, Gulf Oil
-proper names: capitalize common nouns such as party, river, street and west when they are an integral part of the full name for a person, place or thing: Democratic Party, Mississippi River, etc. 
-Lowercase these common nouns when they stand alone in subsequent references the party, the river, etc
-Lowercase the common noun elements of names in all plural uses: the Democratic and Republican parties, Main and State streets, lakes Erie and Ontario
-popular names: some places and events lack officially designated proper names but have popular names that are the effective equivalent: the Combat Zone (a section of downtown Boston), the Main Line (a group of Philadelphia suburbs), the Badlands (of S.D.), the Street (the financial community in the Wall Street area of New York). 
-this also applies to shortened versions of the proper names of one-of-a-kind events: the Series (the World Series), the Derby (the Kentucky Derby). 
-derivatives: capitalize words that are derived from a proper noun and still depend on it for their meaning: American, Christian, Christianity, English, French, Marxism, Shakespearean. 
-Lowercase words that are derived from a proper noun but no longer depend on it for their meaning: french fries, herculean, manhattan cocktail, malapropism, pasteurize, quixotic, venetian blind. 
-titles: capitalize formal titles when used immediately before a name. Lowercase formal titles when used alone or in constructions that set them off from a name by commas: President Barack Obama/ Barack Obama, president of the United States, 
-Use lowercase at all times for terms that are job descriptions rather than formal titles: gardener John C. Jones

Abbreviations/Acronyms

-before a name: Abbreviate titles when used before a full name: Dr., Gov., Lt. Gov., Mr., Mrs., Rep., the Rev., Sen. and certain military designations:

general: Gen.
lieutenant general: Lt. Gen.
major general: Maj. Gen.
brigadier general: Brig. Gen.
colonel: Col.
lieutenant colonel: Lt. Col. 
major: Maj.
captain: Capt.
first lieutenant: 1st Lt.
second lieutenant: 2nd Lt.
sergeant major: Sgt. Maj.
first sergeant: 1st Sgt. 
sergeant first class: Sgt. 1st Class
specialist four: Spec. 4
corporal: Cpl.
private first class: Pfc.
private: Pvt.
chief petty officer: Chief Petty Officer
admiral: Adm.
vice admiral: Vice Adm.
rear admiral: Rear Adm.
commodore: Commodore
captain: Capt.
commander: Cmdr.
lieutenant commander: Lt. Cmdr.
lieutenant: Lt.
lieutenant junior grade: Lt. j.g. 
ensign: Ensign
seaman: Seaman
seaman apprentice: Seaman Apprentice
master sergeant: Master Sgt. 
technical sergeant: Tech. Sgt. 
airman first class: Airman 1st Class
airman: Airman

With dates or numerals: Use the abbreviations A.D., B.C., a.m., p.m., No., (ONLY WITH NUMERALS ATTACHED) and abbreviate certain months when used with the day of the month: Jan., Feb., March, April, May, June, July, Aug., Sept., Oct., Nov., Dec.

-In numbers and addresses: Abbreviate avenue, boulevard and street in numbered addresses: He lives on Pennsylvania Avenue. He lives at 122 Pennsylvania Ave. 
-Acceptable but not required: CIA, FBI, GOP
-DO NOT follow an organization's full name with an abbreviation or acronym in parentheses or set off by dashes (Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) NO NO NO! 

-Caps, Periods: Generally, omit periods in acronyms unless the result would spell an unrelated word. But use period in most two-letter abbreviations: U.K., U.S., etc. 
-Use all caps, but no periods, in longer abbreviations and acronyms when the individual letters are pronounced: ABC, CIA, FBI

Punctuation

-Apostrophe
-plural nouns ending in S: Add only an apostrophe: the churches' needs
-nouns plural in form, singular in meaning: add only an apostrophe: mathematics' rules
-nouns the same in singular and plural: treat them the same as plurals, even if the meaning is singular: one corps' location, the two deer's tracks, the lone moose's antlers
-singular nouns not ending in S: Add 's: the church's needs.
-singular common nouns ending in S: add 's unless the next word begins with s: the hostess's invitation, but the hostess' seat.
-singular proper names ending in S: Use only an apostrophe: Achilles' heel, Agnes' book.
-Special Expressions: for appearance' sake, for conscience' sake (end in s sound and next word starts with s)
-Joint/Individual Possession: Use a possessive form after only the last word if ownership is joint: Fred and Sylvia's apartment. But use a possessive form after both words if the objects are individually owned: Fred's and Sylvia's books. 
-Descriptive Phrases: Don't add apostrophe to a word ending in s when it is used primarily in a descriptive sense: citizens band radio, a teachers college, a Teamsters request, a writers guide. (**The apostrophe usually is not used if for or by rather than of would be appropriate in the longer form: a radio for citizens, a college for teachers, a request by the Teamsters, a guide for writers).

Comma
-In a series: Use a comma to separate elements in a series, but do not put a comma before the conjunction in a simple series: The flag is red, white and blue.
-Put a comma before the concluding conjunction in a series, however, if an integral element of the series requires a conjunction: I had orange juice, toast, and ham and eggs for breakfast.
-Also use a comma before the concluding conjunction in a complex set of phrases.
-With equal adjectives: Use commas to separate a series of adjectives equal in  rank. If the commas could be replaced by the word "and" without changing the sense, the adjectives are equal: a thoughtful, precise manner; a dark, dangerous street.
-Use no comma when the last adjective before a noun outranks its predecessors because it is an integral element of a noun phrase, which is the equivalent of a single noun: a cheap fur coat (the noun phrase is fur coat); the old oaken bucket; a new, blue spring bonnet.
-With nonessential clauses: A nonessential clause must be set off by commas. An essential clause must NOT be set off from the rest of a sentence by commas. My son Todd plays football. My husband, Bob, is awesome. 
-With introductory clauses and phrases: When he woke up, he felt sore. 
-With conjunctions: When a conjunction such as and, but or for links two clauses that could stand alone as separate sentences, use a comma before the conjunction in most cases. 
-Introducing direct quotes:
-one-sentence quotation within a paragraph: Wallace said, "She spent six months in Argentina."
-use a colon to introduce quotations of more than one sentence.
-do not use a comma at the start of an indirect or partial quotation
-Before attribution: use a comma instead of a at the end of a quote that is followed by attribution: "Rub my shoulders," Miss Cawley said.

Semicolon
- to clarify a series: Use semicolons to separate elements of a series when the items in the series are long o when individual segments contain material that also must be set off by commas: "He is survived by a son, John Smith, of Chicago; three daughters, Jane Smith...
-to link independent clauses: The package was due last week; it arrived today.

Hyphen
Hyphens are joiners. Use them to avoid ambiguity or to form a single idea from two or more words. 
-avoid ambiguity: Use a hyphen whenever ambiguity would result if it were omitted: The president will speak to small-business men. 
-Compound modifiers: a first-quarter touchdown, out-of-state college
-most of these lose the hyphen when placed after the noun: touchdown in the first quarter, she attended a college out of state. 
-BUT when a modifier that would be hyphenated before a noun occurs instead after a form of the bird to be, the hyphen must be retained to avoid confusion: The man is well-known. The woman is quick-witted. 
-Two-thought compounds: serio-comic, socio-economic
-Compound proper nouns and adjectives: Use a hyphen to designate dual heritage: Italian-American

Quotations
-do not use fragments: Wrong: "The senator said he would "go home to Michigan" if he lost the election. Right: The senator said he would go home to Michigan if he lost the election.

Numerals 
-Use 1-9, ten
-spell out numbers if they are the first word of a sentence (unless a year)




Thursday, March 5, 2009

Patience vs. Patients

Patience (self-control)
Patients (clients of a doctor)

I had a word usage test today. Word usage is all about using the right word at the right time. I think I did well. I like writing. I like editing. I like photography. I like Jesus. I like traveling (traveling has ONE "l" not two. I missed that on my spelling test).  I would really like to know how God is going to use all of these avocations of mine in my future. Thus patience, the self-control kind, is really a tough concept for me to grasp right now. Some days, I would love to be back in the time when I had everything planned- I was going to be a veterinarian. I knew what to do and when to do it, and I knew I could go anywhere with that job. The problem came along when I completely lost my passion for veterinary medicine during my freshman year and capitalized on my lifelong obsession with the technicalities and the art of the English language. So not practical. So not an easily planned career path, and lately my mind is screaming at me, "What are you doing???" 

Alas, my heart and my soul trump my head, and I'm actually extremely grateful for that. I know I'm on this path for a reason, and I am a firm believer that God gives us talents and passions to show us his will for our lives. I've heard some people say "don't follow your dreams, follow God's!" This is a true statement, but from what I've experienced, God doesn't really rip away our dreams and throw them into the trash can, but rather, he changes them (if we're open enough to allow him to). When we cling tightly to our goals and plans is when God must painfully remove them from us and we must learn to adjust to his plans for our lives. If we are in open communication with God, and are truly willing to submit to his authority, he begins to change our hearts willingly. We wonder what our dreams ever were in the first place, and we find ourselves loving something (or someone) we never could have imagined.  

My problem often lies when I look behind or ahead of me. I am content when I'm thinking about today, but the thoughts of what could have been and what will be terrify me when I give them a second thought. God is very much a God of the present. We've been talking about that a lot on Tuesday nights at BCM lately, and it has struck me as something I've never given much consideration to in the past. I don't want to worry my life away (sounds like a Jason Mraz song to me...), and I am making a conscious (maybe not natural, but conscious just the same) effort to just let go of the future as well as the past, and take to today for what it is. God is not a God of confusion. He is the artist of the Big Picture, and I'm just a speck of paint on his canvas. It all makes sense to him.